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The foundations of coaching—especially aligned with professional standards like the International Coaching Federation (ICF)—are the core principles, mindsets, and skills that make coaching effective, ethical, and client-centered.
Here’s a clear, structured breakdown:
Client is naturally creative, resourceful, and whole
You are not the expert in their life—they are
You partner, not direct
What this looks like in practice:
“What do you think is the best way forward?”
Not: “Here’s what you should do”
Grounded in codes like the ICF Code of Ethics and COMENSA.
Confidentiality
Professional boundaries
Integrity
Cultural awareness
Avoiding harm
Example:
You don’t coach beyond your competence (e.g., trauma → refer to therapy)
Coaching starts with clear agreements.
Macro contracting (relationship level)
Micro contracting (session level)
Goals
Roles
Boundaries
Confidentiality
Expectations
Example:
“What would you like to walk away with from today?”
Being fully present, aware, and flexible.
Deep listening
Emotional attunement
Managing your own reactions
Comfort with silence
Example:
Not rushing to fill silence → letting insight emerge
Listening beyond words:
Tone
Emotion
Patterns
What’s not being said
Internal (your thoughts)
Focused (on client)
Global (environment, energy)
Example:
“I notice you hesitated there—what’s going on?”
Questions that:
Open thinking
Challenge assumptions
Create awareness
Open-ended
Short
Non-leading
Examples:
“What’s really important here?”
“What are you avoiding?”
The core of coaching:
Insight → Shift → Action
Reflection
Reframing
Patterns
Challenging beliefs
Example:
“You say you want growth, but avoid risk—how do those fit together?”
Coaching is not just insight—it leads to change.
Clear outcomes
Action steps
Accountability
Example:
“What will you do before our next session?”
The client:
Owns decisions
Owns actions
Owns results
The coach:
Holds the space
Holds accountability
Without trust, coaching fails.
Non-judgment
Consistency
Empathy
Confidentiality
Coaching is not:
Consulting
Mentoring
Therapy (unless dual-qualified and contracted clearly)
Facilitate thinking, don’t provide answers
Coaching assumes:
People can grow
Awareness leads to change
Reflection accelerates learning
Contract → Explore → Create Awareness → Act → Reflect
At a high level, coaching is:
Less about questions
More about who you are being
Less about solving problems
More about transforming identity and perception
Contracting in the International Coaching Federation framework is primarily located in Competency 3, but it also shows up across several other competencies at a deeper (MCC) level.
Let’s break it down cleanly so you can use it for training or assessment.
This is the main ICF module for contracting.
Clarifies coaching vs mentoring, consulting, therapy
Sets expectations of roles
Contracting relevance:
→ Defines the type of relationship
Logistics (fees, time, confidentiality, boundaries)
Roles and responsibilities
Contracting relevance:
→ This is macro contracting (formal agreement)
What the client wants from the session
Desired outcome
Contracting relevance:
→ This is micro contracting (session level)
What success looks like
How progress is tracked
Contracting relevance:
→ Links contracting to accountability and outcomes
Keeps conversation aligned to goal
Renegotiates if needed
Contracting relevance:
→ Dynamic contracting (real-time adjustment)
Confidentiality
Boundaries
Scope of practice
Why it matters:
→ Forms the ethical backbone of contracting
Partnering with the client
Not imposing agenda
Why it matters:
→ Prevents fake contracting (coach-led agendas)
Creating psychological safety
Respecting client autonomy
Why it matters:
→ Without trust, contracting is superficial
Staying flexible
Adapting in the moment
Why it matters:
→ Enables real-time re-contracting
Hearing what the client really wants
Why it matters:
→ Contracting depends on accurate understanding
Clarifying goals
Challenging vague outcomes
Why it matters:
→ Strengthens depth of the contract
Turning goals into action
Accountability
Why it matters:
→ Contracting must lead to results
At master level, contracting is not a step—it’s continuous and fluid:
Happens at the start, middle, and end
Is often implicit, not scripted
Includes:
Agenda
Emotional focus
Energy shifts
Identity-level outcomes
Relational (3.2)
→ “How will we work together?”
Session (3.3)
→ “What do you want today?”
Moment-to-moment (3.5)
→ “Where are we now?”
A powerful way to frame it:
“Contracting is not a question.
It is a continuous alignment with what matters most to the client.”
Here are 20 MCC-level contracting questions aligned with the standards of the International Coaching Federation—these go beyond basic “what’s your goal?” and aim for depth, ownership, and transformation.
They are grouped by when and why you’d use them.
What feels most important for us to focus on today?
What would make this conversation truly valuable for you?
If this session were a success, what would be different by the end?
Why does this matter to you right now?
What’s the real challenge beneath what you’ve just said?
How will you know you’ve achieved what you want from this session?
What would “better” look like in a concrete way?
What impact would achieving this have on you or others?
What’s at stake if nothing changes?
What deeper shift are you hoping for here?
What part of this feels most unclear or unresolved?
What are you not saying that might be important here?
Where might you be limiting your own thinking?
What assumptions are you making about this situation?
If we explored this fully, what might you discover?
Where would you like to go from here?
Is this still the most useful direction for you?
What do you need from me right now to support you best?
Shall we stay here, or is there something more important emerging?
What will you commit to as a result of this conversation?
They:
Invite depth, not just description
Create ownership, not dependence
Allow flexibility and co-creation
Focus on meaning, impact, and identity, not just tasks
At MCC level:
You are not contracting for the topic
You are contracting for the transformation
Here are the ICF Core Competency 3 (Establishing and Maintaining Agreements) sub-competencies with example coaching questions next to each one:
Focus: Clarifying session agenda and intent
Example questions:
“What would be most valuable for you to focus on today?”
“What do you want to walk away from this session with?”
“What feels most important right now to explore?”
Focus: What success will look like
Example questions:
“How will you know this session has been useful for you?”
“What would be different by the end of our conversation for you to feel this was successful?”
“What outcome would make this session feel complete?”
Focus: Structuring and holding the agenda
Example questions:
“We have about 20 minutes left—what would you like to prioritise now?”
“Would it help if we stay with this topic or shift to something else?”
“How would you like to use the remaining time?”
Focus: Staying aligned with agreed focus
Example questions:
“How does this connect to what you wanted to achieve today?”
“Is this still the most important direction for us to explore?”
“Where would you like to go next with this?”
Focus: Checking progress during/at end of session
Example questions:
“Where are you now in relation to what you wanted to achieve today?”
“What progress have you made in this conversation so far?”
“What feels resolved, and what still needs attention?”
Focus: Clarifying gaps or barriers
Example questions:
“What feels most important to resolve in order to move forward?”
“What is getting in the way of achieving what you want?”
“What still needs clarity for you to reach your goal?”
Focus: Forward planning and continuity
Example questions:
“What would you like to focus on next time we meet?”
“What do you want to carry forward from today into our next session?”
“What feels important for us to explore in future conversations?”
Competency 3 is essentially about:
Creating clarity, maintaining focus, and continuously realigning the coaching conversation to the client’s desired outcomes.
Topic: Establishing and Maintaining Agreements in Coaching
Audience: Coach trainees / developing coaches
Outcome: Participants can confidently contract at session + engagement level using ICF Competency 3 skills
Set context: why contracting is foundational in coaching.
Contracting = clarity + alignment + safety
Prevents coaching drift into advice, therapy, or mentoring
Direct link to ICF Core Competency 3
“What happens when contracting is unclear in coaching?”
“Where have you seen coaching conversations lose focus?”
Explain 3.1–3.7:
3.1 Session intention
3.2 Success measures
3.3 Time & focus management
3.4 Staying aligned to outcome
3.5 Progress evaluation
3.6 Clarifying what must be addressed
3.7 Future session agreements
Contracting happens at 3 levels:
Macro contract (overall engagement)
Micro contract (session focus)
Moment-to-moment contracting (ongoing)
Coach demonstrates a full session opening focusing on:
3.1 → “What do you want to focus on today?”
3.2 → “How will you know this session is useful?”
3.3 → “We have 45 minutes—how would you like to use the time?”
Participants watch for:
Clarity of agreement
Presence of contracting questions
Alignment to client outcome
“What contracting did you notice?”
“Where was clarity created?”
Participants pair up:
Coach / Client / Observer rotation (10 mins each round)
Coach must explicitly practice:
3.1 session focus
3.2 success definition
3.3 time management
Did the coach clarify focus?
Did they define success?
Did they manage time explicitly?
How contracting continues during coaching:
3.4: Staying aligned
3.5: Checking progress
3.6: Clarifying barriers
3.7: Future agreements
“How does this relate to what you wanted today?”
“What progress are you noticing?”
“What still needs to be addressed?”
“What would you like to focus on next time?”
Same pairs, but now:
Full mini coaching session (15 min)
Continuous contracting (not just at start)
At least 2 progress checks (3.5)
1 future session agreement (3.7)
Was contracting ongoing or only at start?
Did the coach maintain focus discipline?
“What felt easiest in contracting?”
“What felt most challenging?”
“Where did you lose focus and how did you recover it?”
Strong coaching = strong agreements + continuous realignment
Contracting is not a “step” in coaching—it is the structure that holds the entire conversation together.
When done well:
Coaching becomes focused
Client outcomes become clearer
Coach confidence increases
Ethical boundaries remain intact
Purpose: To assess how effectively the coach establishes and maintains coaching agreements during a session.
☐ Coach clearly asked what the client wants to focus on today
☐ Client’s agenda was explicitly confirmed (not assumed)
☐ Session topic was agreed before deep coaching began
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach asked how the client will define a successful session
☐ Client described clear indicators of success
☐ Success criteria were referenced during the session
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach clarified session time at the start
☐ Coach managed time explicitly during the session
☐ Coach helped client prioritise when multiple topics emerged
☐ Coach invited client to choose focus when time was limited
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach checked alignment to original session goal
☐ Coach redirected conversation when it drifted off-topic
☐ Coach avoided unnecessary advice or storytelling drift
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach checked progress during the session
☐ Coach invited client reflection on movement toward goal
☐ Coach helped client assess what had shifted or changed
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach explored what was blocking progress
☐ Coach helped client identify missing clarity or gaps
☐ Coach supported deeper understanding of what must be resolved
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Coach invited reflection on next steps or future focus
☐ Coach supported client in identifying future priorities
☐ Coach linked today’s insights to future coaching direction
Evidence/Notes:
☐ Contracting was clear, explicit, and client-led
☐ Contracting was revisited during the session (not only at start)
☐ Coach maintained structure without becoming rigid
☐ Client remained in control of agenda and direction
☐ Coaching stayed aligned to agreed outcomes
Rate each area 1–5:
Session Agreement (3.1–3.3): ___ / 5
Maintaining Agreement (3.4–3.6): ___ / 5
Future Alignment (3.7): ___ / 5
Overall Contracting Strength: ___ / 5
Strong contracting is visible when:
The session feels focused, co-created, and continuously realigned—not left to chance or assumption.
Coach consistently asks what the client wants to focus on
Agenda is usually clear and agreed at the start
Success criteria are identified, but may be simple or surface-level
Time is managed adequately, sometimes coach-led
Indicators:
“What would you like to work on today?”
“How will you know this session was useful?”
Some structure, but coach may still guide timing
Contracting emerges naturally and fluidly, not mechanically
Agenda is co-created with deep clarity and client ownership
Success is defined in rich, often multi-layered terms (internal + external shifts)
Time is managed invisibly through presence, not interruption
Indicators:
Contracting is embedded in conversation, not a “step”
Client often refines their own focus without prompting
Success includes emotional, cognitive, and behavioural shifts
Coach checks in on alignment to goal during session
Coach redirects when conversation drifts
Progress is occasionally reviewed
Coach asks what needs to be addressed next
Strength:
Clear structure
Client stays broadly aligned to goal
Limitation:
Coach may “manage the session” too actively
Some reliance on explicit check-ins
Contract is held implicitly and continuously without interruption
Coach uses minimal intervention to maintain alignment
Client self-corrects and realigns without prompting
Progress awareness emerges organically in dialogue
Deep exploration of what is truly essential vs surface content
Indicators:
No visible “agenda policing”
Coach holds space rather than directs flow
Client naturally returns to core outcome
Coach asks what client wants to focus on next time
Future sessions are explicitly planned or noted
Clear forward planning occurs at end of session
Future focus emerges naturally from insight and awareness
Client identifies developmental trajectory without being asked directly
Future orientation is integrated into present insight
No forced “next session planning” moment
Contracting is structured, explicit, and consistent
Coach uses clear questions to establish and maintain agreement
Coaching follows a logical flow with defined checkpoints
Client is engaged and aligned
Summary:
“Strong structure with clear agreement management.”
Contracting is fluid, implicit, and continuously alive
No visible separation between contracting and coaching
Client drives agenda ownership with high autonomy
Coach operates at level of presence, intuition, and subtle recalibration
Agreements evolve dynamically in real time
Summary:
“Contracting is embodied rather than applied.”
Dimension
PCC
MCC
Contracting style
Explicit
Embedded
Structure
Visible
Invisible
Coach role
Guide process
Hold space
Client autonomy
Supported
Fully owned
Focus management
Active steering
Self-regulating system
Language
Direct questions
Subtle, minimal intervention
PCC = competent, structured, repeatable contracting
MCC = seamless, client-led contracting embedded in presence
These are the most common reasons a coach does NOT pass PCC-level contracting:
Coach jumps into coaching without confirming focus
Assumes the topic instead of asking
Client agenda is unclear or shifting without agreement
Failure signal: “We just started talking without defining what we’re working on.”
No question about what success looks like
Success is vague (“feel better”, “get clarity”) with no depth
Coach does not revisit success criteria later
Failure signal: No measurable or meaningful session outcome.
Session drifts across multiple topics
Coach fails to help prioritise
Time runs out without closure or structure
Failure signal: “We talked a lot, but nothing was held as priority.”
Coach follows client stories without anchoring back to goal
No alignment checks during session
Coaching becomes conversational or exploratory without direction
Failure signal: Loss of focus on original agreement.
No check-in on where client is relative to goal
Session ends without reflection on progress
Coach does not help client assess movement
Failure signal: No awareness of whether session achieved anything.
Session ends abruptly
No exploration of next steps or continuation
No link to future development
Failure signal: “No landing of the session.”
At MCC level, failure is not about structure missing—it’s about loss of depth, presence, or client autonomy.
Coach forces explicit contracting questions too mechanically
Session feels “step-by-step” instead of fluid
Coach interrupts natural flow to check agreements
Failure signal: Coaching feels procedural, not organic.
Coach overly manages focus
Frequent redirecting instead of deep listening
Coach leads session instead of co-creating emergence
Failure signal: Coach is “driving the session.”
Coach subtly imposes direction (“let’s focus on this”)
Client follows coach’s structure instead of owning agenda
Contract becomes coach-led, not client-led
Failure signal: Client is not fully self-directing.
Either:
Too many explicit check-ins (breaks flow), OR
No awareness of agreement at all (drift)
MCC requires invisible structure, not absence of structure
Coach relies on verbal checks instead of intuitive alignment
Misses subtle shifts in client focus
Does not notice emerging deeper agenda
👉 Failure signal: Coach reacts instead of sensing.
Conversation stays surface-level
No evolution of the client’s original goal
No expansion of meaning or insight
Failure signal: No transformation of the agenda.
Level
What Fails Most
PCC
Structure missing or poorly executed
MCC
Presence, depth, and client autonomy are compromised
PCC fails when coaching loses structure
MCC fails when coaching loses presence or becomes too structured
PCC fails due to lack of clear contracting execution; MCC fails when contracting becomes mechanical, intrusive, or coach-led instead of naturally client-emergent.
Here are 5 high-quality coaching questions/scenarios that collectively test all ICF Core Competency 3 (Contracting) requirements at both PCC and MCC level. Each one is designed to reveal whether a coach is operating at competent (PCC) or mastery (MCC) level.
Question:
“A client enters the session and says, ‘I don’t really know what to focus on today—I have a lot going on.’ What do you do first, and how do you establish a clear session focus?”
Ability to co-create agenda
Clarity vs assumption
Depth of contracting under ambiguity
Asks: “What would you like to focus on?”
Helps client pick one topic
Explores underlying emergence of priority
Helps client discover what is most alive right now without forcing structure
Question:
“A client says they want to ‘feel more confident.’ How do you help them define what success looks like for this session?”
Turning vague outcomes into meaningful measures
Progress awareness
Depth of client-defined success
“How will you know this session was useful?”
Simple behavioural or emotional indicators
Explores shifts in identity, perspective, or internal experience
Success emerges during conversation, not just defined upfront
Question:
“Midway through the session, the client shifts into a completely different topic not related to the original focus. What do you do?”
Contract maintenance
Ability to manage drift
Flexibility vs structure
“How does this relate to your original goal?”
Redirects conversation back to agenda
Notices shift without interrupting flow
Allows emergence if new topic holds deeper significance
Contracts in real time, subtly
Question:
“How do you help a client recognise whether they are making progress during the session without becoming directive?”
Awareness building
Non-directive progress reflection
Client ownership of insight
Direct check-in: “What progress have you made so far?”
Uses reflection and silence
Client organically recognises movement or shift
Question:
“At the end of a session, how do you support the client in deciding what comes next without imposing a structure?”
Future orientation
Client-led development planning
Clean session closure
“What would you like to focus on next time?”
Future direction emerges naturally from insight gained
No forced ‘planning moment’—it evolves from awareness
They cover the full ICF Competency 3 system:
Area
Covered
Session focus
Q1
Success definition
Q2
Time & alignment
Q3
Progress tracking
Q4
Future contracting
Q5
PCC = explicit, structured questioning, coach leads process
MCC = fluid, emergent contracting embedded in presence and client awareness
(Word-for-word usable script)
“Before we begin coaching, I’d like to take a few minutes to agree how we will work together. This is to make sure we are both clear and aligned.”
“In this coaching relationship, my role is to support your thinking, awareness, and decision-making.”
“I will not be advising, mentoring, or telling you what to do.”
“You remain fully responsible for your choices, actions, and outcomes.”
“What you share in coaching stays confidential, except where there is a legal or ethical obligation to disclose, which I will always explain if it ever arises.”
“Coaching is forward-focused and action-oriented.”
“It is not therapy, counselling, or diagnosis, and if something comes up that requires that kind of support, we will address it together appropriately.”
“This is your space. You decide what we talk about, what matters most, and what progress looks like for you.”
“How does this way of working feel for you? Is there anything you would like to add or clarify before we continue?”
“Before we dive in, what would you like to focus on today?”
“What would make this session really valuable for you?”
“How will you know this conversation has been useful for you today?”
“What would be different for you by the end of this session?”
“You’ve mentioned a few things—what feels most important to focus on right now?”
“We have about 45 minutes together—how would you like to use this time?”
“Where would you like to start?”
“How does what you’re sharing right now connect to what you wanted to focus on today?”
“Is this still the most important direction for us to explore?”
“I’m noticing we’ve moved into a slightly different area—do you want to stay here, or return to your original focus?”
“Where are you now in relation to what you wanted to achieve today?”
“What’s shifted for you so far in this conversation?”
“What are you noticing about yourself right now?”
“What feels like the real block here?”
“What would need to become clear for you to move forward?”
“What’s still unresolved for you in this?”
“As we close today, what feels most important from this conversation for you?”
“What would you like to take forward into your next steps?”
“What would you like to focus on next time we meet?”
“How will you apply what you’ve realised today in your real world?”
“What’s your commitment to yourself after this session?”
(This is the difference between PCC and MCC)
“What feels most alive for you right now?”
“Where would you like to go with this?”
“What’s becoming clear as we talk?”
“What wants your attention now?”
“What are you noticing in yourself as you say that?”
“I’m with you… take your time.”
“Say more about that.”
“What’s underneath that for you?”
“Stay with that… and I’m curious how it connects to what you came in wanting today.”
“Contracting is not a step in coaching. It is the structure that holds the entire conversation.”
Agree relationship (macro contract)
Define session focus (3.1)
Define success (3.2)
Manage time (3.3)
Maintain alignment (3.4)
Check progress (3.5)
Clarify barriers (3.6)
Agree next steps (3.7)
(Advanced, fluid, presence-based)
“Welcome… good to see you.”
(pause)
“What would be most meaningful for you to explore today?”
Client speaks…
Coach:
“Mm… say more about that.”
(long pause)
“What feels most alive for you in that right now?”
“What is drawing your attention most strongly as you say that?”
“What part of this matters most to you today?”
Client speaks…
Coach:
“What would be different for you if this shifted in the way you’re hoping for?”
(pause)
“And what would that mean for you?”
Client continues exploring…
Coach (only if necessary, very lightly):
“We have time… just stay with what’s important.”
“If we pause for a moment… how does this connect to what brought you here today?”
(pause)
“What wants your attention most right now?”
Client drifts into another topic…
Coach:
“I’m noticing where you’ve gone…”
(long pause)
“What feels most essential for you in all of this?”
“What are you noticing about yourself as you talk through this?”
(pause)
“What’s shifting for you right now?”
“What feels underneath all of this for you?”
“What is this really about for you?”
(silence held)
As insight emerges…
Coach:
“What becomes available for you now that wasn’t before?”
(pause)
“And where might that take you next… if anywhere?”
Client naturally begins to conclude…
Coach:
“Take a moment with what’s here…”
(long pause)
“What are you leaving with right now?”
(silence)
“And what feels important to carry forward from this?”
It is woven into presence, awareness, and dialogue.
Instead of:
“What do you want to focus on?”
“How will you know this is successful?”
MCC uses:
“What’s alive for you?”
“What’s becoming clear?”
“What matters most right now?”
At MCC level:
Silence = alignment tool
Presence = structure
Awareness = agenda
There is no:
agenda management
time management instruction
explicit success definition step
It emerges naturally.
The coach is not managing the session.
They are:
“holding the space where the client continuously contracts with themselves.”
“At MCC level, contracting is not something the coach does—it is something that continuously emerges between awareness, presence, and client insight.”
Here’s a powerful, ready-to-use training resource for teaching Contracting & Agreements (Macro + Micro) aligned to ICF and COMENSA.
Contracting is the foundation of all effective coaching.
Without a clear agreement, there is no coaching—only conversation.
Contracting creates clarity, safety, and direction.
Coaching is a partnership, and contracting defines that partnership.
The client owns the agenda—contracting protects that.
Contracting is not a form—it is a living agreement.
Every great coaching session starts with clarity of focus.
Contracting is about alignment, not control.
You are not responsible for the client’s results—but you are responsible for the agreement.
A weak contract leads to a weak outcome.
Contracting prevents coaching from becoming advice or therapy.
The clearer the agreement, the deeper the coaching.
Contracting is an ethical responsibility, not just a skill.
If you’re confused, the contract is unclear.
Coaching without contracting is like driving without a destination.
Macro contracting defines the overall coaching relationship.
It includes roles, responsibilities, and expectations.
It clarifies what coaching is and is not.
It defines boundaries between coaching, mentoring, and therapy.
Confidentiality must always be explicitly agreed.
The client must understand their responsibility for outcomes.
Payment, logistics, and cancellations are part of the contract.
Ethical standards must be explained clearly.
The coach must ensure informed consent.
Macro contracting builds trust before coaching begins.
It protects both the coach and the client.
Always check: “Is the client truly agreeing—or just complying?”
Macro contracts can evolve as the relationship evolves.
The contract should be clear, simple, and transparent.
Avoid jargon—clients must fully understand the agreement.
Revisit the contract if anything changes.
The contract is co-created, not imposed.
Good contracting reduces future conflict.
Always confirm agreement—not assume it.
Ethical clarity builds professional credibility.
Micro contracting happens at the start of every session.
Always ask: “What would you like to focus on today?”
Never assume the agenda—always co-create it.
Clarity of focus leads to depth of insight.
Define what success looks like before coaching begins.
“How will you know this session was valuable?” is a key question.
If the client brings multiple topics, help them prioritise.
Time is part of the contract—use it intentionally.
Micro contracting prevents drift.
It creates a container for the conversation.
Without it, coaching becomes unfocused.
The client must choose the focus—not the coach.
Keep the contract simple and clear.
Don’t overcomplicate the session agreement.
Micro contracting should feel natural, not mechanical.
It should take minutes—not dominate the session.
Strong micro contracts lead to powerful outcomes.
Reconfirm the focus if the conversation shifts.
The session goal must be meaningful to the client.
Avoid vague goals—push for clarity.
The client defines success—not the coach.
Micro contracting sets the direction for the session.
It is the anchor of the coaching conversation.
It supports accountability and progress.
Always check: “Are we still aligned?”
Contracting is continuous, not a one-time step.
Revisit the agreement as needed.
If the client drifts, bring them back gently.
Ask: “How does this relate to your goal?”
Check progress throughout the session.
Awareness of progress is part of coaching.
Clients should track their own movement.
If something new emerges, re-contract.
Don’t ignore shifts—explore them.
Stay aligned with what matters most.
Contracting keeps the session purposeful.
It prevents over-exploration without outcome.
It supports focus and depth.
Use contracting to manage time gracefully.
Avoid interrupting flow—be subtle.
MCC level = invisible contracting.
Let the client self-correct when possible.
Maintain direction without controlling.
Balance structure with presence.
Contracting lives inside the conversation.
Always close the session intentionally.
Ask: “What are you taking away from today?”
Reflect on progress toward the goal.
Link insights to action.
Ask: “What will you do next?”
Explore accountability.
Connect today’s work to future sessions.
Ask: “What would you like to focus on next time?”
Ensure the session feels complete.
Closure reinforces learning and ownership.
At MCC level, contracting is invisible.
The client owns the agenda without being asked.
The coach holds the structure without controlling it.
Contracting emerges through presence.
Silence can be part of contracting.
Awareness replaces explicit structure.
The coach trusts the process deeply.
The client self-aligns continuously.
The contract evolves in real time.
Mastery is when contracting is felt, not seen.
COMENSA aligns closely with ethical coaching standards and expects the following in contracting:
Establish a clear, mutual agreement on the coaching relationship
Define purpose, scope, and goals
Clarify the role of the coach vs client
Ensure the client understands their responsibility for outcomes
Client must fully understand:
What coaching is
What it is not
Agreement must be voluntary and informed
Define confidentiality and its limits
Explain any legal or ethical exceptions
Clarify boundaries between:
Coaching
Therapy
Mentoring
Consulting
Fees and payment terms
Session frequency and duration
Cancellation policies
Adherence to COMENSA Code of Ethics
Respect, professionalism, and integrity
Agreements should be reviewed and updated when needed
Flexibility as the coaching evolves
Consider diversity, inclusion, and cultural context
Ensure agreement is appropriate for the client’s environment
Maintain appropriate documentation
Ensure transparency in all agreements
“ICF focuses on how you contract in the moment.
COMENSA ensures you contract ethically and professionally in the relationship.”
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use the 10 comensa coaching requirements and give me a script that matches all requirements
Here is a complete, word-for-word coaching contracting script that covers all 10 COMENSA contracting requirements while remaining natural, professional, and client-centred.
You can use this for:
First session / intake
Assessment demonstrations
Training coaches
“Before we begin, I’d like us to take a few minutes to agree on how we’ll work together, so that we’re both clear and aligned.”
“My intention is to create a space that supports your thinking, growth, and outcomes.”
“In this coaching relationship, my role is to support your thinking through questions, reflection, and awareness.”
“I won’t be giving advice, mentoring, or telling you what to do.”
“Coaching is focused on your goals, your decisions, and your forward movement.”
“It’s also important to say that coaching is not therapy, counselling, or diagnosis.”
“If at any point something comes up that is better suited to another form of support, we’ll discuss that together.”
“You are fully responsible for your choices, actions, and results.”
“My role is to support your process—not to direct it.”
“This is your space, and you decide what we focus on and what matters most.”
“We will focus on the goals and outcomes that are meaningful to you.”
“We can define those together and revisit them as needed.”
“What would you like to achieve through coaching at a broader level?”
(Allow response and refine together)
“Everything you share in this coaching space will remain confidential.”
“The only exceptions would be if there is a legal obligation or a risk of harm to yourself or others—in which case I would discuss that with you.”
“Let’s also agree on the practical side of things.”
“Our sessions will be [duration, e.g., 60 minutes], and we’ll meet [frequency].”
“The fee is [amount], and payment will be [method/terms].”
“If you need to reschedule, I ask for [e.g., 24 hours’ notice].”
“I work in alignment with professional coaching standards and ethics, which means I’m committed to confidentiality, respect, and acting in your best interest.”
“If at any point you have concerns about how we are working together, I encourage you to raise them openly.”
“I also want to acknowledge that your context, background, and environment are important.”
“If there’s anything about your situation, culture, or preferences that you’d like me to be aware of in how we work together, please feel free to share that.”
“As we move forward, we can revisit and adjust our agreement if your needs or goals change.”
“This is a flexible process that evolves with you.”
“Before we begin, how does this way of working sound to you?”
“Is there anything you’d like to add, change, or clarify?”
(Pause and confirm explicit agreement)
“Great—so with that in place…”
“What would you like to focus on today?”
This script ensures:
Ethical compliance (COMENSA)
Clear structure (ICF alignment)
Client ownership
Professional credibility
“COMENSA contracting is about creating a clear, ethical, and professional agreement that protects both the client and the coach—while keeping the client fully responsible for their journey.”
Here’s a clean, professional micro-contracting script + a practical framework you can use in ICF / COMENSA-aligned coaching sessions.
Use this at the start of every session (and adapt naturally):
Opening the session
“Welcome back. Before we begin, let’s take a moment to get clear on what would be most valuable for you today.”
Setting the focus
“What would you like to focus on in this session?”
(Pause and listen)
Refining clarity
“And what specifically about that would you like to explore?”
Defining success
“If this session was really valuable for you, what would be different by the end?”
Making it meaningful
“Why is this important to you right now?”
Sharpening the outcome
“So by the end of our time together, you’d like to walk away with [reflect their words]. Is that right?”
Prioritising (if needed)
“You’ve mentioned a few areas—what feels most important to focus on today?”
Agreement check
“Does that feel like the right focus for our session?”
Transition into coaching
“Great—let’s begin there.”
Use this easy structure:
👉 What is the topic?
Questions:
“What would you like to focus on today?”
“What’s most important for you right now?”
👉 What does success look like?
Questions:
“What would you like to walk away with?”
“How will you know this session was useful?”
👉 Make it specific and meaningful
Questions:
“What specifically about this matters?”
“What does that look like in practice?”
👉 Why does this matter now?
Questions:
“Why is this important to you?”
“What’s at stake if nothing changes?”
👉 What can realistically be done in this session?
Questions:
“What would be a meaningful outcome in the time we have?”
“What feels achievable today?”
Use this naturally if the client drifts:
“How does this connect to what you wanted to achieve today?”
“Are we still focusing on what matters most?”
“Would you like to shift the focus?”
Tie back to the agreement:
“What are you taking away from today?”
“How does this relate to what you wanted at the start?”
“What will you do next?”
At higher levels:
Contracting becomes lighter and more fluid
You reflect instead of ask directly
You co-create, not control
Example:
Instead of:
👉 “What do you want to focus on?”
You might say:
👉 “What feels most important for us to explore today?”
“Micro contracting is the art of creating clarity, direction, and ownership—before the coaching even begins.”
Here are 10 ICF-style PCC mock test questions (multiple choice).
Answers are provided separately at the end so you can test yourself first.
A client begins a session by talking about multiple unrelated challenges. What is the BEST response by the coach?
A. Allow the client to explore freely without interruption
B. Ask the client to choose one topic to focus on
C. Provide advice on which issue seems most urgent
D. Summarize all issues and move into problem-solving
Which question BEST aligns with defining success for the session?
A. “Why is this important to you?”
B. “How will you know this session was useful?”
C. “What have you tried before?”
D. “What do you think you should do next?”
A client shifts away from the agreed topic mid-session. What should the coach do?
A. Ignore the shift and continue listening
B. Redirect immediately to the original topic
C. Ask how the new topic relates to the original goal
D. Offer a solution to bring focus back
Which action BEST demonstrates maintaining the coaching agreement?
A. Asking multiple questions about different topics
B. Following the client’s energy regardless of focus
C. Checking alignment with the session goal
D. Giving advice when the client is stuck
What is the PRIMARY purpose of contracting in coaching?
A. To control the direction of the session
B. To ensure the coach leads the process
C. To create clarity and shared understanding
D. To define the coach’s expertise
Which of the following BEST reflects ICF coaching versus mentoring?
A. The coach shares personal experience
B. The coach provides expert advice
C. The coach facilitates the client’s thinking
D. The coach directs the client’s actions
A client says, “I just want to feel better.” What is the BEST next step?
A. Suggest ways to improve their mood
B. Ask what “feeling better” means to them
C. Move directly into action planning
D. Share similar experiences
Which of the following BEST demonstrates ethical coaching practice?
A. Sharing client information with a colleague for advice
B. Keeping all client information confidential within agreed limits
C. Advising the client on what decision to make
D. Challenging the client aggressively
At the end of a session, what is the BEST question to support client accountability?
A. “What did you learn today?”
B. “What will you do next?”
C. “Why was this important?”
D. “How do you feel now?”
Which behaviour BEST aligns with PCC-level coaching presence?
A. Strictly following a structured process
B. Allowing the client to lead while maintaining focus
C. Giving advice when the client is unclear
D. Interrupting to manage time frequently
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Here are the next 10 PCC-level ICF mock questions, slightly more scenario-based and exam-realistic.
A client says, “I don’t know what I want to focus on today.” What is the BEST response?
A. Suggest a topic based on previous sessions
B. Ask the client what feels most important right now
C. Move into general life discussion
D. Provide options for the client to choose from
A client defines their goal vaguely. What should the coach do FIRST?
A. Move into action planning
B. Challenge the client’s lack of clarity
C. Explore what the goal means to the client
D. Offer examples of clearer goals
During a session, the client becomes emotional. What is the BEST response?
A. Shift the topic to avoid discomfort
B. Offer advice to solve the issue
C. Acknowledge the emotion and allow space
D. Ask the client to calm down
A client asks, “What would you do if you were me?” What should the coach do?
A. Share personal advice
B. Redirect the question back to the client
C. Provide multiple options
D. Suggest the most logical solution
Which action BEST supports client autonomy?
A. Giving the client a step-by-step plan
B. Asking leading questions toward a solution
C. Encouraging the client to generate their own options
D. Sharing similar experiences
A client is not making progress toward their goal. What is the BEST coaching response?
A. Motivate the client to try harder
B. Revisit the goal and explore what is getting in the way
C. Provide a structured action plan
D. Suggest a different goal
What is the BEST way to close a coaching session?
A. Summarize everything discussed
B. End when time runs out
C. Ask the client what they are taking away and their next steps
D. Give feedback on the client’s performance
A coach notices they are becoming emotionally invested in the client’s outcome. What should they do?
A. Continue as normal
B. Share their emotions with the client
C. Refocus on the client’s agenda and maintain neutrality
D. End the session early
Which question BEST demonstrates active listening?
A. “Why did you do that?”
B. “What should you do next?”
C. “What I’m hearing is… is that right?”
D. “Have you considered another option?”
A client brings a topic outside the coach’s expertise. What should the coach do?
A. Provide general advice anyway
B. Ignore the topic
C. Stay within coaching role and support the client’s thinking
D. Refer immediately without discussion
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When you're ready, ask for the next 10 (21–30)—I can make those even closer to MCC-level trickiness with more nuanced distinctions.
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Here are Questions 21–30, now moving closer to PCC–MCC boundary level with more nuanced scenarios and subtle distractors.
A client starts the session with: “I want to talk about my career, my relationship, and my health.” What is the BEST response?
A. Explore all three topics equally
B. Ask which one feels most important to focus on today
C. Choose the most urgent topic for the client
D. Start with career as it’s most common
A client defines success as “feeling better.” What should the coach do NEXT?
A. Accept it and continue
B. Ask what “feeling better” specifically looks like for them
C. Suggest measurable outcomes
D. Move into action planning
Mid-session, the client says: “Actually, I want to talk about something else.” What is the BEST response?
A. Redirect them back to the original topic
B. Allow the shift without question
C. Explore the new topic and re-contract the session
D. End the session and reschedule
A client is speaking at length without clear direction. What should the coach do?
A. Let them continue uninterrupted
B. Interrupt and redirect to the goal
C. Reflect and invite focus on what matters most
D. Offer a summary and solution
Which question BEST supports maintaining the coaching agreement?
A. “Why is this happening?”
B. “What do you think you should do?”
C. “How does this connect to what you wanted to achieve today?”
D. “Have you tried this before?”
A client says, “I’ve tried everything and nothing works.” What is the BEST response?
A. Suggest new strategies
B. Challenge the client’s belief directly
C. Explore what “everything” means to them
D. Encourage them to keep trying
A client reaches an insight but does not take action. What should the coach do?
A. Push the client to commit to action
B. Leave it as insight only
C. Explore what the insight means and what they want to do with it
D. Suggest a specific action
Which behaviour BEST demonstrates PCC-level presence?
A. Strictly following a coaching model
B. Responding flexibly to the client while maintaining focus
C. Leading the client toward solutions
D. Avoiding silence
A client asks for advice multiple times. What is the BEST approach?
A. Provide advice to build trust
B. Ignore the request
C. Acknowledge the request and return responsibility to the client
D. End the session
At the end of a session, the client has not fully achieved their goal. What should the coach do?
A. Extend the session
B. Highlight what has been achieved and explore next steps
C. Apologize for lack of progress
D. Provide a solution to complete the goal
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Here are Questions 31–40, now at high PCC / early MCC level with more subtle distinctions (these are closer to how the real exam tests judgment).
A client sets a clear goal at the start, but midway begins exploring a deeper, unrelated issue. What is the BEST response?
A. Bring the client back to the original goal immediately
B. Allow full exploration without reference to the goal
C. Acknowledge the shift and invite the client to choose the direction
D. Ignore the new topic
A client says, “I don’t feel like I made progress today.” What should the coach do FIRST?
A. Defend the coaching process
B. Highlight what the coach observed as progress
C. Ask the client what progress would have looked like for them
D. Suggest continuing the session
Which question BEST demonstrates partnership in contracting?
A. “What do you want to achieve today?”
B. “What should we focus on?”
C. “What would be most valuable for us to work on today?”
D. “Tell me your goal.”
A client repeatedly brings vague goals across sessions. What is the MOST effective approach?
A. Accept the client’s style
B. Push the client to define a SMART goal
C. Explore what clarity means for the client and co-create focus
D. Provide examples of clear goals
During a session, the coach notices their own judgment arising. What should they do?
A. Share the judgment with the client
B. Ignore it and continue
C. Acknowledge internally and refocus on the client
D. Challenge the client
A client says, “I just want you to tell me what to do.” What is the BEST response?
A. Provide advice
B. Explain that coaching is not advice-giving and invite their thinking
C. End the session
D. Give general suggestions
Which action BEST reflects maintaining presence?
A. Thinking ahead to the next question
B. Following a prepared structure
C. Responding to what is emerging in the moment
D. Planning the session outcome
A client reaches a powerful emotional insight. What should the coach do NEXT?
A. Move quickly to action planning
B. Stay with the insight and deepen awareness
C. Summarize and close the session
D. Shift to a lighter topic
Which question BEST supports client ownership?
A. “Why didn’t you take action?”
B. “What stopped you?”
C. “What choices do you see available to you?”
D. “Have you tried harder?”
A session is nearing the end, and the client introduces a new topic. What is the BEST response?
A. Start exploring the new topic fully
B. Ignore the new topic
C. Acknowledge it and ask how they want to use the remaining time
D. Extend the session automatically
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You’re now operating at strong PCC level.
Here is a 20-question COMENSA Contracting Test focused on ethics, agreements, boundaries, and professionalism, followed by a separate answer section.
What is the primary purpose of contracting in coaching?
A. To define the coach’s authority
B. To create a clear, mutual agreement
C. To ensure the client follows instructions
D. To structure the session strictly
Which element is ESSENTIAL in a COMENSA coaching contract?
A. Coach’s personal experience
B. Confidentiality agreement
C. Advice framework
D. Personality assessment
What does “informed consent” mean in coaching?
A. The client signs a contract
B. The client agrees to pay fees
C. The client understands the coaching process and agrees voluntarily
D. The coach explains their qualifications
Confidentiality may be broken under which condition?
A. If the coach needs supervision
B. If the client requests advice
C. If there is risk of harm or legal obligation
D. If the session is unproductive
What should a coach do if a client brings a therapy-related issue?
A. Continue coaching as normal
B. Provide counselling
C. Refer or discuss appropriate support
D. Ignore the issue
Which of the following BEST defines roles in coaching?
A. The coach leads and directs
B. The client is responsible for outcomes
C. The coach gives solutions
D. The client follows instructions
What should be included in the logistics of a contract?
A. Coaching models used
B. Session fees and cancellation policy
C. Client personality type
D. Coach’s preferences
What is the BEST way to confirm agreement with a client?
A. Assume understanding
B. Ask if they agree and invite questions
C. Move on quickly
D. Provide a written document only
What is the risk of poor contracting?
A. Longer sessions
B. Confusion and misaligned expectations
C. More coaching opportunities
D. Better outcomes
Which statement BEST reflects ethical coaching practice?
A. The coach decides what is best
B. The coach maintains professionalism and integrity
C. The coach shares client stories freely
D. The coach controls the session
When should contracting be reviewed?
A. Only at the beginning
B. Only when problems arise
C. Periodically and when needed
D. Never
What is the purpose of defining boundaries in coaching?
A. To restrict the client
B. To clarify what coaching includes and excludes
C. To control the conversation
D. To shorten sessions
What should a coach do if the client does not understand the agreement?
A. Continue anyway
B. Simplify and clarify the agreement
C. End the session
D. Ignore it
Which of the following is part of ethical alignment?
A. Giving advice
B. Following a strict script
C. Adhering to a professional code of ethics
D. Controlling outcomes
What is the client’s responsibility in the coaching contract?
A. To follow instructions
B. To achieve outcomes independently
C. To own their choices and actions
D. To agree with the coach
Why is transparency important in contracting?
A. To impress the client
B. To avoid difficult conversations
C. To build trust and clarity
D. To shorten sessions
What is the BEST approach to cultural sensitivity in contracting?
A. Treat all clients the same
B. Ignore cultural differences
C. Acknowledge and adapt to the client’s context
D. Focus only on goals
What should a coach do if the scope of coaching changes?
A. Continue without discussion
B. Re-contract with the client
C. End the relationship
D. Ignore the change
What is the purpose of documenting agreements?
A. Legal protection only
B. Marketing purposes
C. Clarity, accountability, and transparency
D. Administrative compliance only
Which of the following BEST reflects COMENSA contracting principles?
A. Coach-led structure
B. Ethical, clear, and client-centred agreements
C. Advice-based coaching
D. Fixed, unchangeable contracts
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“Before we begin, I want to share how I work as a coach. My role is to support your thinking, not to give advice or solutions.”
“Coaching for me is a space where you explore your own thinking more deeply. I won’t be telling you what to do, but I will help you notice patterns and insights.”
“What I don’t do is instruct or advise — instead, I’ll ask questions that help you access your own clarity.”
“I don’t see you as someone to fix, but as someone already capable of deeper clarity.”
“In this space, you bring your topic and willingness to explore, and I bring presence and questions. Does that feel right for you?”
“It’s important that you feel free to lead the direction, and I’ll follow your thinking closely.”
“You are responsible for what you choose to take from this conversation — my role is to support your reflection.”
“Before we begin, can we confirm our time together is 45 minutes?”
“Everything you share stays confidential, unless there’s a legal or safety requirement — is that clear and okay for you?”
“We can pause or stop at any time if something doesn’t feel right.”
“Do you have any questions about how we’ll work together today?”
“Over our time together, what would you most like to shift or achieve?”
“If our coaching is successful, what will be different for you in a few months?”
“What feels like the bigger direction you’re working toward right now?”
“What is the deeper theme behind that goal?”
“What made you choose to work with me?”
“What kind of support tends to work best for you?”
“Is there anything you need from me as a coach to feel this is a good fit?”
“As we begin, I’m curious how this space feels for you with me.”
“What would make this session really valuable for you today?”
“What would you like to walk away with from our conversation?”
“What feels most important to focus on right now?”
“What do you feel needs to be explored for you to get clarity on that?”
“What feels most in the way of that right now?”
“What part of this feels most unclear or unresolved?”
“What are you not yet seeing clearly in this situation?”
“How will you know this session has been useful for you?”
“What would success look like for you by the end of today?”
“What shift would make you say this was a meaningful conversation?”
“What internal shift would tell you something has changed?”
“We have about 20 minutes left — would you like to stay with this thread or shift focus?”
“I’m noticing we’ve moved into something deeper — do you want to continue here or come back to your original goal?”
“Would it help if we zoomed in or zoomed out right now?”
“I want to check — is this still helping you move toward what you came in for today?”
“Shall we stay with this or come back to your main focus?”
“Where would you like to take this next?”
“What feels most alive for you right now in relation to your goal?”
“As we close our work together, what are you taking away from this coaching journey?”
“What has shifted for you since we began working together?”
“How would you like to acknowledge the work you’ve done?”
“What would you want to say to yourself about this journey?”
“I want to pause and check — is our current direction still what you want to focus on?”
“It feels like something may have shifted for you — would it be useful to redefine what we’re working on right now?”
“Do we need to adjust our focus to better fit what’s emerging for you?”
“Something feels different in the room — do you want to name what’s changed for you?”
Across ALL C3 sub-competencies, assessors are listening for:
“Did the coach set and maintain structure?”
“Did the coach keep the agreement ALIVE without breaking flow?”
C3 is NOT about saying these lines.
It is about:
timing
subtlety
emotional intelligence
invisibility of structure
👉 MCC coaches rarely sound like they are contracting
👉 but the agreement is always being held
3. Establishes and Maintains Agreements Definition: Partners with the client and relevant stakeholders to create clear agreements about the coaching relationship, process, plans and goals.
Establishes agreements for the overall coaching engagement as well as those for each coaching session.
3.01. Describes one's coaching philosophy and clearly defines what coaching is and is not for potential clients and stakeholders
3.02. Reaches agreement about what is and is not appropriate in the relationship, what is and is not being offered, and the responsibilities of the client and relevant stakeholders, including commitment to working toward coaching goals
3.03. Reaches agreement about the guidelines and specific parameters of the coaching relationship such as logistics, fees, scheduling, duration, termination, confidentiality and inclusion of others
3.04. Partners with the client and relevant stakeholders to establish an overall coaching plan and goals
3.05. Partners with the client to determine client-coach compatibility
3.06. Partners with the client to identify or reconfirm what they want to accomplish in the session
3.07. Partners with the client to define what the client believes they need to address or resolve to achieve what they want to accomplish in the session
3.08. Partners with the client to define or reconfirm measures of success for what the client wants to accomplish in the coaching engagement or individual session
3.09. Partners with the client to manage the time and focus of the session
3.10. Continues coaching in the direction of the client’s desired outcome unless the client indicates otherwise
3.11. Partners with the client to close the coaching relationship in a way that respects the client and the coaching experience
3.12. Revisits the coaching agreement when necessary to ensure the coaching approach is meeting the client's needs
Here are 15 high-quality MCC/PCC-level coaching compatibility questions you can use for ICF Competency 3.05 (Partnering with the client to determine coach–client compatibility).
These are designed to uncover:
expectations
coaching readiness
communication fit
psychological safety fit
accountability style
coaching depth alignment
“What made you consider coaching at this point in your life?”
“What would make this coaching relationship valuable enough for you to continue?”
“What do you believe coaching is, in your own words?”
“What are you hoping a coach will do—or not do—for you?”
“Have you experienced coaching before? If so, what worked and what didn’t?”
“How ready do you feel to take responsibility for the outcomes you want?”
“What role do you see yourself playing in making change happen?”
“What kind of support helps you think best—direct questions, reflection, challenge, or silence?”
“How do you prefer to be challenged when something isn’t clear or aligned?”
“Do you prefer to explore things deeply or stay more action-focused?”
“How comfortable are you sitting with uncertainty or not having immediate answers?”
“What helps you stay accountable when working on something important?”
“Do you prefer structure and direction, or more open exploration?”
“What would make you feel safe and open in a coaching conversation with me?”
“Is there anything about how I work that you’d need adjusted for this to feel like a good fit?”
Compatibility is NOT about agreement.
It is about:
“Can this coach hold this client’s thinking style effectively without distortion?”
So assessors look for:
client self-awareness about their needs
mutual clarity on coaching style
openness to challenge
emotional safety + honesty
realistic expectations of coaching role
These indicate poor compatibility or weak contracting risk:
“Just tell me what to do” (advice expectation mismatch)
resistance to reflection or silence
desire for therapy when coaching is offered
coach over-promising outcomes
lack of clarity on personal responsibility
discomfort with being questioned
At MCC level, you don’t fire all 15 questions.
Instead you:
ask 3–6 of these naturally
listen for patterns
reflect back awareness
let compatibility emerge through dialogue
Example MCC-style flow:
“What kind of support helps you think best?”
“Interesting… and what hasn’t worked for you in the past with coaches?”
“So it sounds like you prefer space to think rather than advice—am I hearing that correctly?”
Compatibility is not assessed at the start only.
It is continuously validated through how the client responds to coaching itself.
So:
C3.05 starts the conversation
but C3.12 (recontracting) confirms it continuously